well ya know, im sorry you dont get the respect for your spuse thing, i do, and when she says no, no matter how much it may be then that is that, thank you for leaving me such a rude comment i really appreciate it, but most of all thank you to all the golfers out there that have the heart to not bash me and help me out, those are the people that have heart. THANK YOU TO ALL THAT HAVE HELPED ME.