DodgyPutter: A relational bully is usually set on increasing their own social standing by diminishing the standing of another child
ahh, so, there was just a tiny alteration in Craig's definition. Nonetheless, it may still apply if we act like children. :)
So, this may have been the proper, and better, reply?
EDIT: But, seriously, if one feels bullied, they should confront the other person, privately and tell them how it makes you feel. IMO