Where there's a will, there's a way....
Take a look at the ladders at www.wgt.agls.org.uk.
No one quits and if they did, they would be penalized.
Mostly good people, a lot of golf and good competition.
Give it a shot,... you might be surprised at the changes in your attitude toward the game.
And you may make a whole boatload of new friends.
Peace