It's nice to know that I'm the only one. In the past week or so I was invited to play twice. When I accepted I got an error which I can't remember the exact wording. If I get it again I will report it. The second time he sent another invitation, I accepted. we got through one hole and then his player just loaded until he finally disconnected. Which left me to finish as a one person group.
If someone has any ideas, I'd love to hear them.