With all due respect to all the wonderful people who have invited me to join their CC... thank you all so very much for thinking about me...
But now I am wondering if we should start the Anti-Country Club, or the Not a Country Club Country Club, for those of us who really don't want to be in one.... There would be no tournaments, no forum messages, no contact whatsoever within the CC, just a name on the profile to let other, very well meaning, people know that you're just not interested in joining a club.
If I get enough responses I will start the Not a Country Club Country Club.