zach, what you have left out of your post is how long you have been playing this game. It is by far the most comprehensive and challenging golf game that I have ever played on a computer. And yes, I have played all the EA Tiger Woods versions.
I recommend that you do what serious golfers have to do...practice. Play a bunch of practice rounds so you can get a better feel and understanding of the courses. This will also get you better at your timing and distances with all your clubs.
Do this...before commenting back, play at least 9 practice holes a day for the next 10 days. Then come back and tell everyone if you still feel the same way.
Good luck and remember...its only a game...have fun :)