I just want to throw i my kudos for the Ladders (wgtls) and Golfseeker.
I play both. Both have dedicated site owners that have created a tremendous site for competition here at WGT on their own time and own dime.
Ladders has multiple gaming formats; Individual multi play tourneys such as 3 hole, 9 hole and 18 hole, along with other tourneys, including Guild which are teammate best ball matches.
Golfseeker has various tourneys set up more like the PGA format which points accumulate over time along with daily tourneys. You also play with a true handicap rather than the WGT average. That makes a world of difference.
I have to say, they have players that will finish a game no matter what. If someone disconnects, it is more likely a game error or disconnection out of their control than a deliberate disconnect .
Sign up at either or both of these and play the matches here and report there and you are good to go!