Is there a way to config my fringe default patter meter
Unfortunately no there is not.
After awhile, you will become accustomed to adjusting your scale. Train yourself to make it a routine when you are on/around the green.
Like Don said.
BTW - you are not alone. I have either forgotten to check the meter scale, which club I have selected, or other items on soooo many shots it is ridiculous! One thing I realized I was doing some times (on PC) was hitting the scroll wheel on my mouse just before I clicked to take the shot - which changed the last item I had clicked (like shot type, club, putting meter, ....)!!!