This topic has been discussed before, it was ridiculous then, and it still is. Using a wedge on the green isn't against the rules, so therefore it isn't cheating. No matter what your ideas are. BTW, politely forfeiting, is quitting, no matter how you say it, you're saying "I'm a quitter" . Either learn, and use the shot, or accept someone using it, but don't waste other people's time by quitting on them, that just poor form!!!!