hi, i read a post of yours saying you would like to play with different people as long as sex was not involved, you seem to me to be a person who would like to join our ladders at www.wgt.agls.org.uk, we here have a mixed membership and some of us  have played together for a number of years on a older game, the site is free to join and members here play each other for ladder positioning with a view to attaining top spot, just a variation of playing the game opposed to tournaments all the time, we have a laugh and fun as well as trying to beat each other, hope you come along and join us.