Congratulations Peter, very well deserved my friend,
For me, I only started to really enjoy the game when I hit legend tees as it became a challenge rather than just shooting for pins.
I agree the reward/award programme in place is outdated and insulting but that is another issue.
Short irons and wedges should be the same, perhaps it is the wind or landing spots that have impacted these.
You will constantly learn and that is what keeps us interested - I certainly am on a learning curve and can play well some days, terribly others.
But one thing I know for sure, with your attitude Peter, you will cope admirably at this level.
Edit - one thing I recommend to others at TM level is start using the 3W from the tee - in that was the distance will not seem quite so daunting when you do hit Legend tees.